Know exactly
who's coming.
For kid birthdays, class events, and family gatherings. Send each family one private link, guests RSVP in two taps, and Hejmo shows you who to nudge.
Free for unlimited events · No ads · $5 per event for premium looks
You know how group chat RSVPs go
Someone asks “who's coming?” and the answers scatter across 30 messages. Half are maybes. Nobody says whether it's the whole family or just them.
Hejmo gives each family their own link. One tap to open, one tap to answer for everyone in the house. Your dashboard shows the exact headcount and gives you ready-to-send nudges for whoever has not replied.
How it works
Three steps. No spreadsheets, no chasing.
Add your families and groups
Name each family or group and list who's in it. Every group gets its own invite link.
Share one link each
Paste each link into any text or chat. Whoever opens it can answer for the whole group.
Nudge the quiet ones
See who's in, who's out, and who's still deciding. For anyone who hasn't answered, Hejmo writes the reminder — you just paste it into your usual chat.
What your guests see
Open link. Tap response. Done. No accounts, no apps.
Guest opens your link and sees the event details.
Parents answer for the whole family. No sign-up needed.
Calendar and map auto-attached. That's it.
What your invite looks like in a chat
Paste your link in iMessage, WhatsApp, or any chat. Your guests see a rich preview with the event name and details before they even tap.
Free invites share a clean, branded card. Plus adds a cover photo, a custom link, and premium design for $5.
Made for these events
Any gathering where people show up in twos, threes, and families.
Kids' birthday parties
12 families, one link each. Parents answer for their own kids, and notes catch allergies and drop-off plans.
School and class events
25 families, co-hosted with the other room parent. One dashboard, one clear headcount.
Family reunions
8 households across 3 cities. Notes keep arrival plans attached to each family.
Dinner parties and game nights
4 couples, simple headcount, no fuss. Each couple gets a link and answers on their own time.
Everything a real headcount needs
Nothing you have to learn. Nothing your guests have to install.
Family & group RSVPs
Invite by family. One person answers for everyone — like a wedding response card without the stationery. Extra guests allowed when you say so.
Nudges, no contact upload
Copy a ready-to-send reminder for each family that hasn't answered, and paste it into the thread you already use. Hejmo never messages your guests.
Private by default
Every family gets its own link. No public guest lists, no strangers scrolling your party. Regenerate any link in one tap.
Co-host together
Planning with the other room parent? Share editing and stay aligned on details, design, and the guest list.
Reusable guest lists
Start the next birthday, class party, or reunion from a guest list you already built. The second event takes a minute.
Premium looks for $5
Upgrade any single event with a cover photo, a custom link, and premium design. Pay per event, never a subscription.
Best for
- Kids' birthdays and family celebrations
- School events where parents RSVP for the family
- Any gathering where households respond as a group
- Hosts who want private, ad-free invites
Not for
- Ticketed events with payment processing
- Deep design-only customization as the primary goal
- Large enterprise event operations
Simple pricing
Logistics stay free. No ads either way. Plus is $5 per event.
Free
- Unlimited events and sharing
- Family and group RSVPs
- Private links by default
- Co-hosting
Plus
- Cover photo
- Premium design polish
- Custom link
- Everything in Free, still free
Host pass
- For frequent room parents and organizers
- All events for a year
- Pricing not set yet
- Helps us decide what to build
Easy on your guests.
They open the link and tap an answer — that's the whole ask. No account, no app, no phone number, and never an ad. Works on any phone.
FAQ
What hosts ask before their first event.
Do guests need an account?
How do family RSVPs work?
Can one parent RSVP for the whole family?
Can I use one shared link for everyone?
Does every family get its own link?
Does Hejmo send reminder messages?
What if a link gets shared too widely?
Can I change my custom link later?
Can I upgrade after sharing the invite?
Why no ads?
Can guests see each other's names?
Stop chasing replies
One link per family. One clear headcount. Free, no ads, and two minutes to set up.